Dr. GURU speaks...
Many 'relationships' break down due to a lack of communicating eachothers standards.
The other never quite meets your expectations, and the contempt begins to build...
Finally, you cannot hold back and a massive argument insues; at the drop-of-a-hat.
You must understand eachothers sore-points, and either deal with them...or move on with your separate lives.
The Guru must now sleep.